As a young guy who is naive, you may have been hanging out with many female friends but never had a kiss from any of them. It’s not that it doesn’t bother you but other activities takes your time than thinking about girls.
Firstly, before we commence, girls must understand that men are visual in nature not emotional. Men are sexual beings and are sexually driven.
The earlier women accept this the easier it will be for most of them in understanding men. They are attracted to girls with nice ASSets, and not about nice personalities (at least at the beginning of a relationship, of course, we care about personality, but we’re talking about initial attraction right now.) So let’s show you the reasons why most guys hates dating virgins.
1. The virgin stereotype
This stereotype says that virgins are naive, ignorant about sex, dull, prude, have to be handled carefully, care-less about a man’s needs, too emotional, extra careful, play too hard to get etc. Dating a virgin to many guys is a burden, someone you would have to encourage to kiss, someone you would have to beg to reach second base. Remember guys are physically aroused.
2. The icing on the cake
Most times a guy likes a girl and goes after her ‘aggressively’. During the ‘toasting’ stage, he is all about love and isn’t deterred when the girl tells him of her ‘virgin’ status. He is love-struck obviously. He tells her “I want you for who you are not for the sex”. She’s like, “Awww, that’s so sweet of you Kelvin”. They start dating.
Will he ever pretend completely that he doesn’t sex? Hell No!
3. The Super Glue nature and lifestyle
Most virgin gitls are clingy 95% of the time. A girl kept her virginity for so long, the guy that takes it away has to be special to her and when he does, she never forgets him. A lot of girls get clingy and kinda devoted to the guy that takes her virginity. To prove a point here, no girl ever forgets the name of the guy that dis-virgined her. So why would a guy in this economic recession be entangled with a girl that can’t stay away from him because she lost her virginity to him?
4. Opening the major gate for others men
Majority of guys don’t just like the fact that after sleeping with their virgin girl, they will one day live to find out that they only dis-virgin a girl so other guys can start enjoying while them as the first guy that entered remains in her memory forever.
Guys may feel like having quickie with their girlfriend but most times, especially when it happens that the so called is still a virgin, they tend to go a long way in trying to convince their girls into being comfortable with them as they sleep together, and that can make any relationship super boring though.
Most guys will choose to save themselves from the stress of pretending to love a girl just because they only want to get into her sexy pant.
7. Quick flirting and Fling
Lastly and the most glaring reason why most guys detest virgins is because they are interested in a quick fling and not a long term committed relationship. A guy that loves you would see beyond sex but in the same vein, will most girls that love a guy see beyond money?
So what about the girl you’re dating right now? Do you really love her? Is she still a virgin?