In the course of a relationship, there will be times that your partner might feel a spark of attraction for someone else.
Normally, she should be able to talk through these feelings with you so you both can figure out what is lacking in the relationship that might be the cause of her sexual attraction to another man. Though, she might be afraid to let you know her feelings for another man.
However, you should always look out for these signs below to initiate a conversation with her as fast as possible:
1. She started wanting to sleep with you more often
If your once shy partner is suddenly into you all of a sudden, then be wary. Sure, you might want to give in to the bliss of knowing you do not have to cajole her for sex, but a sudden change like this usually means something is up. If someone else has her juices flowing all day, she will be so turned on that she will want to let out her sexual frustration by having sleeping with you. It is like she is feeling the excitement of a new relationship.
2. She keeps trying something new
Normally, you choose the positions and she goes along. But these days, she takes the lead and asks for new things almost every single time you both hit the sheets. If you ask for an explanation, she evades you. This might be because she’s practicing for when she gets on with her new guy.
3. She keeps her mouth and eyes closed
When a woman is using you for just pleasure, but wishing she was with someone else, she would want to keep her eyes closed so she can focus on imagining she was with the other guy. Obviously, looking at you will ruin the whole imagination for her.
4. She works towards dressing differently
You have never said anything about her weight or style, but you start noticing she’s suddenly trying to get fitter and also dress different. If you ask her and she is innocent, she will give you a legitimate reason you can understand such as wanting to be healthier or look better for you. But when you ask and she dodges your question or acts like she’s hiding something, she might be working so hard to look good to get another man’s attention.
5. She mentions his name more often
If you are someone she considers to be a close friend, then she is very likely to have mentioned this guy at some point. When a woman is excited about someone, she cannot simply keep him to herself. Sure, she would not talk about him in a romantic way, but she will bring his name up in some other ways.