Your mother is the only woman who will defend you with everything she’s got.
She’s the woman who nurtured and is still nurturing you, who loves you unconditionally no matter how much you have messed up. The one woman who we will hardly survive without, our mother. Every married woman is a strong mother.
If you were raised by a strong mother, the most beautiful, wonderful and caring woman in the world, here are some of the 10 things you must have learn:
1. It is inevitable to make mistakes
It is okay to make mistakes but at the same time you learn how to own up to them and take full responsibility because we learn from our mistakes.
2. And you are not permitted to make weak excuses
You learn how to work hard to get what you want without making excuses. She also teach you that only weak and lazy people make excuses.
3. A strong mother teaches you how to be independent
You learn how to be a super human and how you should not be dependent on anyone.
4. How to love yourself
She teaches how to move on from failures, heart breaks and bad results because they don’t define you. She also teaches you how to believe in yourself and keeping striving to be the best even when things are going against you.
5. And also the meaning of unconditional love
Name the only person in the world who loves you unconditionally, if you answer is your mom then you are more than a 100% correct. She sacrifices everything she has; her time, wealth, health and even her youth in order to be a good mother. While she did that, she never complained or asked anybody to give her credit for it. By doing that, she teaches you how to love unconditionally.
6. A strong mother taught you faith and patience
She teaches you how to put your faith in God. And also how He’s present no matter your struggles. She also teach you how to be patient when things are not moving well and that you are building strength by being patient.
7. She also teach how to be a good parent
Do you have a hardworking mother, who puts the family’s interest before hers? I bet you do. And this is because she is very supportive, and she loves her family unconditionally. She is also kind, beautiful, strong, compassionate and resilient. Subconsciously, you are trying to follow in her example and when you do, you are surely going to be a good parent.
8. And that no matter how old you are, she still has more wisdom than you
Especially when it comes to love. There might be a gulf in between your age and your mother’s and you may feel like she wouldn’t understand the choices you are trying to make for yourself. It is however in your best interest to listen to her because she knows what is good for you. You will realize how right she was after you must have listened to her.
9. You can create your own happiness
Have you ever realized that no matter how things are going the wrong way, moms always find a way to be happy? Even though you are carrying a heavy weight on your shoulders and it seems like you bear all the problems in the world, she teaches you how to find happiness. She also teaches you that there are a lot of reasons to be happy.
10. She teaches you to focus on the future
You learn that it is very important to stay focused on the future and let the past remain in the past. You also learn that whatever has happened to you in the past was for a reason and it is for that reason that you are where you are today.